Isn’t it about time we put that saying to rest? Because words do hurt. And underestimating the destructive power of words has a price. The language we use translates into concrete realities with all the attendant consequences. Bullying in schools creates despair that swallows young lives. Homophobic insults give rise to L.G.B.T. harassment. Racial slurs, sexist remarks, anti-Semitic or anti-Muslim comments become manifested in realities of discrimination and exclusion. Jesus never downplayed the gravity of hateful words. In the Sermon on the Mount, he equated the act of insulting a brother or sister with murdering them in one’s heart (Matthew 5:21-22.) Language that dehumanizes those who look, love, worship or think differently than us can also tempt some people to act out their emotions with violence. But words can also have a healing and reconciling power, too. Words that bring forth peace and justice. May we be careful that our mouths be filled only with the Godly speech that helps to build a better world for all. “For as the rain and snow come down from heaven, and do not return there until they have watered the earth, making it bring forth and sprout, giving seed to the sower and bread to the eater, so shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and succeed in the thing for which I sent it.” (Isaiah 55:10-11)
I leave you with this prayer, written by Joanna Harader:
God of justice and compassion,
God of Republicans and Democrats and Independents,
God of the poor and the 1% and the middle class,
in the heat of this election year
we pray for our nation, our churches, and ourselves.
In the midst of meanness and deception,
may our words be kind and true.
In the midst of loud speeches and harsh accusations,
may we listen well and try to understand.
May those who follow Jesus do the work of Jesus–
breaking down the dividing walls
speaking the truth in love
meeting together in the face of disagreements.
Holy, loving God, have mercy on your children. Amen.
Grace and Peace,